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hey! i was just lookin on here and saw u answered a lot of ?'s so i figured ud b able to help me. well lets see this past summer i dated a guy named we will jus say johnny .. and he didnt come from much money and it had always been his dream to play ftball so then he got a college scholarship to play ftball which was his dream and so i was like look u need to do that dont worry abt me and i slowly but surely moved on and this guy i was good friends with , i started to like and he was abt to move to ATL but he was like no ill stay here for you and then we start hittin it off well "johnny" is comin home in like 3 weeks and i really wana hang out with him and we have been talkin alot lately and i kno he likes this other grl too named ashley but i dont wana do this to the guy i like .. but i still like josh .. how should i handle this??
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(I'm guessing "Josh" is the ATL guy?)
Also, you never mentioned if "Johnny" is coming home for winter break, or permantely or what. If he's simply coming for a short period of time, then excuse me for being so blunt, but I think if "Josh" truly cares for you, he'd want for you to always be happy. Correct? If seeing an old friend whose back in town for a few weeks is upsetting to "Josh", then perhaps it's time you start crossing some names off of your friends list.
No one says your visit with "Johnny" has to include romance. If "Johnny" has feelings for another girl, he might not even be LOOKING for romance. If you're worried about "Josh" being angry, I suggest YOU lay down the law, and you TELL "Josh" how it's gonna be! "Johnny" is your friend. If you want to see him, you have every right to. You don't need anybody's permission. And I really don't see how you NEED to explain yourself to "Josh" anyhow!! It's not even like you're dating, right? And even if you are/were, he has no control over you. You have the free will to associate with whomever you want and NOT feel bad about it.
Hell, if you think "Josh" and "Johnny" are both such wonderful guys, why not introduce them? "Johnny" is obviously a major part of your life, and if you wish for "Josh" to be also, I think having them meet would be a great idea. Agree? If nothing else, these boys should be begging to meet someone who happens to treat you right, love you so much, and mean the world to you, don'tcha think??
I know I'm always thrilled for my friends to know that they've found a new person to share some smiles with.
They don't have to be full of jealously over one another, they should feel joy and thanks for each other for the way they make you feel.
I guess I really can't tell you what to do here. You'll have to decide that for yourself. I just hope that you do what's truly in your heart. Don't be a push over, don't ever let someone have such control over you. Worrie about yourself here, and do what best suits YOU..
I'm here, though, if you ever feel the need for another opinion. Hopefully things work out for you.
♥ Mackenzie ♥
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