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Well first off i must say that i thought your xanga was real interesting. you seem to be a smart kid. but anyways.... I felt real proud of my body when i weighed less becuase i felt more relaxed to show off my body and not haveing to suck in my tummy.(Its a habit.) I have been through some tuff times... parents,friends,boyfriend and my self estem. I am very slef-conscious. and when their seems to be a problem that might have to include me in any way i will try to find any way possible to put myself down.? and i hate it! i just want to be happy... but i must say im not as deppressed as i used to be.....
cort.....
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im really sorry im answering this so late, my computer hasn't been workin that great....so i had to use a different computer
hmm.....most people say my xanga is pretty weird, but thanx for the complinment lol
1.well to be happy sometimes you just gotta fake it. its commomn sense, if your happy around people then they can't help but be happy with you, so that may solve the not being happy problem
2.it sounds like you need to become more self-aware then self-consious. by that i mean you need to look at the stuff around you that seems to give you tough times, you might be hanging out with the wrong people or trying to live up to the wrong standards.
3.and if you think about it, you don't wanna be around people that don't like you for how you are, so you know what i say about them? screw them. it sounds to me that you want to be skinnier becuase your afriad of what other people might think, it may not seem like it, but unknowingly you are.
4.would you really be so worried about what you looked like if people didn't care? no.
so i know we have all heard that crappy saying,"be yourself" but its possible to be yourself and not act yourself. so im challenging you to act yourself, try to be happy wether you feel like it or not, and try to become more self aware.
and btw, it realy would be easier if i could just talk to you or something, i go try to go by one of the oldest honor systems on the planet, do not lie, cheat, steal....and if i didn't keep your name and all other information confidential then i would be breaking everyone of those, so you would have my word.
ok well i tried to reply to that the best i could...since there wasn't a question in it lol
ok well ttyl cortney and i hope i helped a little bit
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