Me and my friend Kayla have been frinds for 4 years. Well i went to the fair one day and her ex boyfriend was their he started talking to me then he hugged me and asked me if he could walk aroud with me. Well i said sure, so then we were walking around and all of a sudden he turned me around and kissed me and i didnt stop him we just started making out. I didnt mean to though it was really hard to stop cause it reminded me of my ex b/f and how he used to kiss me so i went in a days. Well now she found out and she is really really mad at me but she wont admit it she hangs up on me every time i call her. I dont know what to do i dont wanna lose my friendship over a guy.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? eLiSe answered Monday October 17 2005, 4:53 pm: Well, first off, you should've known NOT to kiss your friends ex. I would HATE it if one of my friends did that to me, so let her cool down for a week or so. Don't even speak to her, bc if you do it'll just make her more angry w/ you! Also, it sounds like you aren't over your ex yet and she isn't over her's either. Babe, I'm sorry, but you got yourself into this situation, whether you can see it or not, so if she's really your friend, you should talk to her ex and tell him that it was wrong to make out w/ him bc you hurt your friend. (if you even feel that it was wrong) then hopefully she'll calm down and let you apologize. If not, that's her decision. So, yea there's a possibility that you could lose a friendship over a guy. It sucks, I've been through it too. But I hope everything works out for you! Ask me if you need anything else! Love yah! [ eLiSe's advice column | Ask eLiSe A Question ]
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