my friend introduced me to this really cute sophomore (i'm a freshman) named matt, whos not exactly popular but he knows a lot of people. anyway, we started talking online a lot and he said i was cute but he wouldnt date me because i was a freshman. then he sort of came around after a week or two and we'd joke around about stuff.
i convinced him to go to the homecoming football game on friday night with me and we were all over each other, kissing and stuff. then i convinced him to go with me to the homecoming dance where we spent practically the entire night with each other freak dancing on the dance floor and holding hands and kissing. but whenever someone asks him if we're together he doesn't say anything.
i don't know what's going on, what does it sound like? and how do i approach him about it?
crazy4him answered Sunday October 16 2005, 10:27 pm: I think just keep being friends right now. Don't be in such a hurry to get connected to any one as you still have your whole life ahead. Besides if you push too hard, most of the time you push them away or it leads to trouble. Stay friends,get your life together first. Besides the old saying You'll know when you meet "Mr. Right" and that will be the perfect timing to commit to someone. [ crazy4him's advice column | Ask crazy4him A Question ]
Megg answered Sunday October 16 2005, 9:47 pm: ok, first off, if he went to the homecoming dance, and football game with you, and is usually around you, then he's obviously interested, in someway. most guys are pretty hard to read. when people ask him about the two of you, he probably isn't sure of a few things. like 1. whether you think the two of you are together or not. 2. what other people might think. -most guys think about what other the "guys" think about the two of you. or he just isn't ready to ask you out. either way, without letting him know head on, let him know where you stand.
also, if he gets jealous, if he see's you flirting, or someone else flirting with you, then there's a good sign that he doesn't want other guys to take you. so he'll move a little faster then he was planing on. [ Megg's advice column | Ask Megg A Question ]
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