I don't mean to sound rude, but you said you're waiting to have sex, and that it pays off...how do you know that waiting to have sex pays off?
Have you been married and consumated it?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? x0oLoViNiTo0x answered Friday October 14 2005, 6:21 pm: It's common sense. Think about it for a second. first of all, if you get married to someone who waited for marriage too, then you would completely wipe out the possibility of either one of you contracting a STD. 2nd of all, when you get married to someone, and you're (obviously) in love with them, and you get to make your first time with them, it makes it so much more special than if your first time was with some person in highschool that you used to think you loved, and now you can't even remember their name. So, yea, the decision is up to you. It depends on How you decide to live your life, and what your morals are.Hope I helped in some way, and sorry if I didn't. [ x0oLoViNiTo0x's advice column | Ask x0oLoViNiTo0x A Question ]
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