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boy trouble
Well there was this guy and we kinda started to have a thing for eachother and he finallt asked me out!Life was all good but i use to cut myself and i wanted to be honest with him so i told him.he didnt believe it at first but then he realized that i wasnt lying and a teh next friday be broke up with me!!! i am in love with him and i cant get over him.....his bff is one of my close friends and he told me that he is sick oh hearing about all of it. I dont cut my self anymore and i feel like i will never get over the fact that i did it like its all i think about! Now i think of my self as a horrible person even though i only did it liike 3 times. well his bff now says that he knoes i like hi but like not in love with him.... so the bff said he might go back out with me!i sure hope soo....he kinda flirts with me sometimes,well do the best u cant to help me bc i need u more then ever right now!!!
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Are you asking about being a horrible person for cutting? If so, the no. You made a simple mistake, you don't do it any more. It probably just creeped him out. He might have thought he has a suicidal girlfriend, and that can get bad, a lot of people threaten to kill themselves if their partner breaks up with them. It just happened recently to someone I know, this guy said he was going to kill himself when his girlfriend broke up with him, he didn't, but it's still hard to handle. Or maybe he thought you were another poser looking for attention bringing up that you used to cut. He probably took it the wrong way. But honestly, telling the guy you date that you used to be a cutter, especially if you only did it like 3 times, isn't really important. Now if all this junk happens and you two decided to be honest about everything that has ever happened in your lives, then yes, bring it up. I'm not saying you shouldn't be honest, but really there's no need to bring it up unless something big happens. So if he goes back out with you great! If I answered this completely wrong, well them drop another one that's a little more specific about what you are asking!!
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