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how can i "get over" a guuy when hes allways around!
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Hi Hun!
okay, here i can definately help you♥i went out with aguy for a year and a half, then i found out he cheated on me, and he just suddenly broke up with me. but enough about me lol.
once he broke up with me, he wanted me back. he tried everyhting.i always pushed him away and ignored him. this is just me, but my own personaly opion is that if he breaks up with me, make him jealous! i nkow it sounds hard, but just like flirt wiht every guy possible, then hell see that you are strong and what happens when you flirt with guys? they start to liek you (usually) so just flirt the hell out of the guys. also, i bet he will ahve feinds telling him that your flirting and he like "shes hott." and stuff, trust me on this one.
another thing to do is just walk by him in the hall way wiht your head high! walk right past, and dotn even do so much as look in his direction. i bet he will look to see if you looked at him. hell get jealous. now, to me jealouly was my goal for the bastard. he will start to feel lonely and relize what he had. also doing this make him want to cry, and hurt the bastard i know this sounds dark, but i would want them to hurt just liek i did. make him cry, nothign maen or phsically i mean this with all the BEST intentions. just make him feel like crap. if thats what you want;thast what i wanted.
if you want to be freidns with him, then flirt with him alittle too. this is the next phase after to whole ill get ya jealous thing.
FLIRT,FLIRT,FLIRT !
even if it makes you want him more, or miss him, do it. get over yourself even though its not easy at all, and do it.
HELL, EVEN LEAD HIM ON.
when you do this he will get flirtatious, and if he gets around to asking you out again or something, say HELL NO;BEEN THEIR DONE THAT! and hell just feel DENIED. lol go for it.
sorry to keep goingon and on but -
1.dont let him see how much he hurt you, make yourslef look strong, and liek you can handle yourself.
2.dont give in, flirt the hell outta him and get him to flirt back ( id o this, TRUST ME; it works =] )
3.flirt with everyone possible, you are now a single being, and you have the option too! take advantage!
feel better!let me know if i helped!
`*CHRiSTiNA
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Stop hanging out with him! But if he is in class or in the neighborhood that may be easier said than done. First, ignore him. Don't fake ignore him hoping to get his attention, really act like he isn't there. Also, when you do think about him think about his annoying traits and what you don't like about him. But really, its going to take as long as its going to take to get over someone. Normally, while no one likes to admit it, it usually takes liking someone else to fully get over someone. Give it some time and try to stop focusing on him.
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excellent question. its very difficult..especially if the guy is a good friend of yours. if the guy moves away..or if you dont see him as much, it does seem easier to get over them
so hes always around and you want to get over him. the best advice i have for you is to
1) -give it time. its hard getting over someone..you have to give it time
2) - get involved with other guys..inother words...go out with friends and meet guys,socialize more,party it up..and maybe you will meet a great guy who will get your mind off this guy
there is no magic potion you can drink..lol..you pretty much have to give it time..and meet new guys..go out..that kind of stuff.
i hope this helped you out? :)
-melissa-
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