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what do i do? i cant get away!!!!


Question Posted Sunday October 9 2005, 7:30 pm

umm lets start here i had a summer love and and we had so much its not even funny! but we had alot of complications and i broke up with him a couple of times for good reason or was my friends just jelous cause they liked him to and they convinsed me? idk but like finally my one friend told me he was to good for me so i broke up with him but of course we thought it wouldnt last cause i was deeply inlove with him and so was he as i thought. and he made a new friend ill call her pocahanas. well finally he totally broke it off with me and ended going out with pocahanas and of course i was jelous of her and well my summer love is my next door neighbor and my friends brother.kinda weird but it was deffitally love at first site. well anyway my two best friends made friends with pocahanas and her friend we will call her sleepin beauty well i told some people that i didnt like pocahanas well duh who wouldnt u would be so jelous so pocahanas older bro nows me and hated me and so did his gang of friends. well finally i made friends with pocahanas cuase of my two best friends and so now we are friends i guess. and well my summer love he kinda put me throught alot of pain which put me up to do some stuff that isnt good.(like hurt myself with my wrist) well it got out to alot of my friends which wasnt good and some people didnt like it and ahted me after that. the problem is ic ant get away from him at all he is a totally jerk to me now and will hate me i try to get away but i cant and i dont kno how. i cry my slef to sleep i need to get away from him but its to tuff and now his mom is working for my parents. and his sister my friend hates me now. ive been a little depressive but as long as im his neighbor ride his bus friends with his friends and im friends with his gf(pocahans) im never going to get away what do i do about all this?

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S_C answered Monday October 10 2005, 6:25 am:
Kind of a confusing question. I think I'm getting what you're saying, but I'm not sure how much help I can be. Pretty much your ex is dating one of your new friends, he's being a jerk to you, and well if there's more to it then I'm lost.
I'm probably not going to be the best for this, but I'll try.

Try to sit somewhere else on the bus so you're not near him, and if there is assigned seating then get your parents to write you a note saying you need to be moved, or just talk to the bus driver. If you have any classes together with him, then talk to your guidance councilor and tell them that you don't think you'll reach your full potention (8th grade teacher of mine always used to say crap about "reaching your full potential" guess it rubbed off). When you're outside, if he's outside too, then just try to keep away from him. Avoiding him is a good way. Then again, you can't live life avoiding your problems, so maybe you can ask him why he's such a jerk to you now. If your relationship is close with your parents then you can always talk to one or both of them about his attitude towards you. Tell your parents that it's not like they have to fire his, but maybe to talk to his parents about their son or something.
Or just tell your parents to set you up a doctors appointment, ask to go in alone, and talk to the doctor about maybe putting you on some antidipressents or something. I'm no doctor, so I wouldn't know if you need them, but if you think you're depressed then you should get on some kind of medicine before you take things too far.

Really, I don't think I was the best person to answer this, maybe you should ask it to the pool.? If you aren't a registered user, then register (it's free) and ask your question, and if you are a registered user, well then you should know what to do. Sorry I'm not the best of help, I just woke up not too long ago, and I've got to get to school so I'm kind of in a hurry.
<33 Kate

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