There's this guy i use to like and still sometimes kinda do. I dont want to like hima nymore cuz it always seems like he likes other girls but he says he doesnt. He doesnt know exactly how i feel. He feels somethin towards me too sumtimes but it doesnt seem like he means it. Im not one who believes in love cuz it feels like i'll never have that let alone a boyfriend. But i like him because he cares n i dont have many people who do or atleast show it. Is there a way i could possibably get over him but still be friends?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? deathwillcome answered Sunday October 9 2005, 12:00 pm: There are two ways that I know of to get over him and still be friends. First you can find another boy to like, that will work with most people, because you have a new goal. And second you can not get over him. Just because you want to be friends, doesn't mean that you have to get over him. He might change or might not, but you will still like him. He will always be him no matter what you do or say. So you have to make a decision, if you will be able to live with the way he is or not. Then you can decide what to do. I hope I helped and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks! [ deathwillcome's advice column | Ask deathwillcome A Question ]
Curemysadness answered Sunday October 9 2005, 11:07 am: Of course there is. It's called time and distance. Maybe you should just leave him alone for a little while and see what happens. See, the less you talk to someone or hang out with them, the easier it is to get over him. If you start liking someone else, it will be a bit easier too. But then if you wanna start talking to him again, you could end up liking him. That's just a chance you are going to have to take. B/c I don't think you can just get over someone by not doing anything to speed up the process. If you think he is a good guy, maybe instead of getting over him, you should tell him how you feel and finding out how he feels for you.I don't believe in love either, but anything's possible! [ Curemysadness's advice column | Ask Curemysadness A Question ]
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