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your a really good advice columnist! so, see if you can help with this- the guy i asked to cotillion hasnt answered yet, and hes really shy, and so am i, but i havta find out what his answer is, but hes always with his friends. how can i tth w/o interupting his conversation?
thanks a whole lot!!!
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And hrm, that's a slight toughie. When did you ask him? Do you think he's taking an unreasonably amount of time to think this over?? When it comes to this sort of thing, you should always pin them down to a time, or at least an agreement (such as; "so you'll let me know before the end of this week?", or something to that degree).
I can understand where you're coming from when you say that you're afraid of "interrupting his conversation", but your plans are waiting on him. You have to be agressive about this, because God forbid he decides to NOT attend this dance with you.. then YOU'LL be the one feeling the burn (as you might have passed up a previous opportunity waiting on his reply) Besides, if he really does hold an interest in you (and I assume he does, to a certain extent. Otherwise, he would have said no right off the bat), he wouldn't mind you "interrupting his conversation" anyhow.
Do you ever see him before school? That would be a good time to approach him. You don't have to come right out and ask for his decision immediately. Just throw in a conversation starter; something like, "Always get to school this early?", or "Wasn't Mr. Dinglehopper's math assignment killer last night?" - just something to break the ice, ya know? I've learned that those quick one-liners tend to get things off to an fairly decent to alright start! :D
You could also take the same approach if you see him inbetween classes. However, I wouldn't strongly suggest that, because he could throw an excuse out there about having to get to class or something.
Here's a thought: have his phone number? Have his AIM screen name? Know anyone who does? Any way you could get ahold of that? Now, I say to definitely confront him in person first. Questioning him in person makes it seem like you care a bit more (than it would seem online, that is). Also, it allows you to see his reaction to being put on the spot. Facial expressions are quite significant. But, if you must, ask online; just make sure to get the answer!
I realize confronting him personally might make you a bit uncomfortable, but if you're truly interested and serious about attending this dance with him, it must be done. Just be bold, and go for it. You deserve that answer. It's the least he can do!!
And well, I hope things work out for the best! If you'd ever like another opinion, know that you always have one here. :D
♥ Mackenzie ♥
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