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i like my best friend
im 14/f/cali.........
ok well theres this guy.. lets just call him bob, and i really like him. ive like him for as long as i can remember and i have not told anyone.. not even my best friends! i told him that i liked him but not to tell anyone and he said "well i dont think anything would happen". i told him this a couple weeks after him and his girlfriend broke up. they went out for a year. and ive liked him almost the whole time. i dont know what to do. every time i hear his name i like block everything else out and listen to what the person is saying. every time he looks at me i smile. we talk on the phone every night and sometimes about the stupidest things. i tell him everything that bothers me.. when im upset or if im happy. everything that happens to me i tell him. also when i cry he always calls me to make me feel better. i dont know if ill ever have a chance with him again. again is because i went out with him when i was in 6th grade . but i broke up with him a few days after because i think i was scared to have a boyfriend. please help i really dont know what to do! also i just found out today that him and his ex are sorta going out.. not really. i dont think that il ever have a chance with him cuz i dont think he will ever forget her. they had sex.. alot and she gave him head and everything and like i dont know what to do. when i see them like kissing i get so sad cuz i wish it was me. please help!!
signed,
sam 14/f/cali
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Omg I'm kinda the same way with my crush. Like I like him ALOT. And whenever I see him and his girlfriend kiss in the hall way, I get pissed off. =/ anyways, this isn't about me. it's about you. What'd I'd suggest doing is not try anything right now, cause obviously nothing's going to happen right now if they're going out. Just be there for him as much as you can, be really nice and be the bestest friend possible. Maybe then next time they break up, and your there to comfort him, he'll realize how much you care and ask you out. =) I can also understand why if he's so attached to her. She might have been his first. And that's a special thing for tow people, and he's probably very attached to her for that and he feels that since they had that it means they love eachother & such. So just don't do anything right now, just be there for him. And hopefully it'll work itself all out. I hope it does & i hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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