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Ok so theres this girl, and we got along great, even best friends at one point. Then i started liking the guy she liked ( im a girl too. ) then she started hating me for that. I didnt care because i knew we would end up being friends again. Then i stopped liking that guy and so did she. She was going out with someone else. Then they broke up and about 3 weeks later he asked me out. I said yes and i really liked him. Then the girl gets so mad at me for dating her ex. I get why shes mad but ever since they broke up shes been doing nothing but talking about how much she hates him and how much she wants to kill him. She even told me she wouldnt care who went out with him. But now ever since me and her ex started to go out shes talking about how much she wants to hurt ME! She says shes gonna beat me up and stuff.. and honestly, shes that kind of person. So my boyfriend IMed her and said " if you lay one finger on her ill tell everybody to gang up on you.. " and things like that, and well basically no one likes her and trust me, if most people got the chance they would def. hurt her. But the thing is.. this girl really will hurt me! And it wont be the first thing shes done something like that..
My question is.. : what should i say to her? we were best friends for about half a year and now shes thinking of ways to kill me. im soo freaked out!! what can i say to her to let her know im not scared and i really dont care. please help!
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Ok. When I used to hear about girls threatning to hit other girls, I rolled my eyes. Then I read this article in CosmoGirl about how serious girls are getting about actually going after other girls these days, especially over guys. So while I advise not to take it so seriously because as you say, not many people like her, I also think you shouldn't take it lightly - dont bother talking to her, I think she's just a jealous scum that thinks resorting to killing people sounds cool or something, but I say tell a teacher. And your parents. And tell someone to get that girl some (SERIOUSLY) help. I really think it would help the both of you if she got a psychologist's help...or the school councellor. Uh-huh.
If she does hit you, she could get in some serious trouble - I hope you're aware of that. Just dont ever put yourself in a position where you give her a chance or a reason to hit you...in short, dont get in to a fight with her, dont confront her, dont 'get in her way'. I'm not telling you to be threatened by her or afraid, just avoid trouble. Because this happens every now and then where I live, and I know how it is. I think its lame that she wants to 'kill you', so good luck and everything. Drop me a line and tell me how it goes.
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