Whenever I start to really like a guy, I find that I distant myself from him. I will talk to him occasionally, but I often times ignore messages he will send me, and even go invisible online if he gets on. I get nervous; I'm afraid that I'll mess-up. I suppose I'm afraid that he'll get to know me and be completely turned-off. I'm afraid of opening up, because I am afraid of rejection. Not to mention, I have serious problems even talking to a guy I find attractive in the first place. I really can't do it. I flirt with my guy friends, but when it comes to someone hott, I completely shy away. It's very depressing, and I have no earthly idea what to do. Thanks!<3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? marythefabulous answered Sunday September 25 2005, 3:07 pm: woot woot! the hot ones are the worst, i understand, but you are never going to have anything to do with the hot ones if you dont pull yourself together and just talk to him!! guys are people too and if hes talking to you on IM, in the halls whereever, he might be some what intrested. Your going to come off as being rude if you ignore him, its only making your situation worse. so the best way to get his attention is just be charming and sweet, dont show the fact that your nervous about talking to him because its all about confidence!
if you do mess up when your talking to him, laugh it off
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