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first-i've had this friend for quite a while.....has changed sooo much.i feel like this other girl is replacing me. You could never seperate us, and now everything is crumbling to pieces.we r still friends but everything is changing so rapidly. i know people change, but this is not what i thought would happen. we have been on the same basketball and soccer team and have had so many sleep-overs.our parents are friends and now my dad is asking me why she hasn't been coming over as often.WHAT DO I DO?!?
~and please just don't tell me to talk her cause stuff like this never gets through to her.help me
~signed:the one who feels lonely,no one to lean on, no one to cry to......
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wow. ive heard a lot about stuff like this lately. well, first, it sounds like she is your best friend. i know this might come as a surprise to you, but it sounds like the person you are talking about is very social. it might be hard to do, but you have to let her make her own choices. if she is very friendly, and has a lot of friends, then let her deal with them but still invite her to things. dont think that she is leaving you behind, because best friends dont do that. even though you dont want to talk to her, maybe its best to tell her how you feel. and maybe you guys have different perspectives! maybe she thinks you two are together all the time and she is trying to stretch out her circle of friends. dont have any harsh feelings against her or her other friend, and maybe invite them both to things so you all three can hang out. you never know? maybe you guys will become a three musketeers friends. hope for the best! xoxo
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