Question Posted Tuesday September 20 2005, 9:30 pm
this guy i've just met he jokes around a lot. he told me that he loved me but i think hes jsut jokin around but hes like i really do oh yeah but he don't really kno me yet. what should i do?
Swe3ti3boO answered Tuesday September 20 2005, 11:21 pm: Just plain out tell him that those worlds have a big meaning and if you don't feel those words, then they obviously don't mean anything. Let him know that if/when you want him to say them you want him to actually mean them instead of thinking love can be replaced by attraction. If he doesn't know you and he's saying those words, he obviously doesn't know the true value of love. You can't love someone you hardly know, love is about knowing a person who and what they are, inside and out and actually accepting them for them and not at all want to change any of it.... [ Swe3ti3boO's advice column | Ask Swe3ti3boO A Question ]
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