ok.. my friend had a really hott boyfriend and i liked him and he liked me also....(he told me) i didnt want him to break up with her because of me because im not like that.... we just had a dance.. and he started grinding on my while she wasnt looking.... about 15 min hey dissappeard and a little bit l8ter and friend appeard cring like no other and when i talked to her she said he broke it off with her... and then about an hour later he asked me out... i didnt kno wat to say but i said yes and we slow dance and grinded all while my friend was crin.... my other friends found out about all this and told her... she HATES me now.... wat do i do and how do i make it better???
babigirl500 answered Monday September 19 2005, 9:35 pm: im not trying to be mean but what you did was mean...but thats not the point...you like a boy sometimes i would sya hey go for it! you need to sit down and talk to your friend about it, without yelling and in person ....dont over AIM or the phone cause although its harder in person it feels better afterwardss....to make her feel better dont b e all over her EX or anything ...the only thing to do it to tell her how you truly feel... [ babigirl500's advice column | Ask babigirl500 A Question ]
X_Amanda_X answered Monday September 19 2005, 8:32 pm: Well, no offence, but if you were truly her friend you would be comforting her in her time of need instead of stealing her ex. Just think..how would you feel if your boyfriend just broke up with you and now your friend is already his new girlfriend and your friend wasn't there to help you.
One possible way of perhaps working things out with her is just to talk to her or write her a note apologizing for what you've done. Although I can't guarantee that she will forgive you. Afterall, would you forgive someone who stole your boyfriend, got all up on him, and totally blew you off in just one night?
I live by a quote, "Before judging someone, walk a mile in their shoes. Then you will be a mile away and they will have their shoes!" Sorry, I'm just trying to get someone to smile. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is, put yourself in her position. What would you do if she were you, and you were her?
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