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him and her.
ok so I've read some of the advice you gave to other people and I think your great at giving advice.
Ok well I really like this kid, I was shy at talking to him first because I thought he was a cutie. But I pushed myself I talked to him and it went well, I got his msn and everything and we talked on there and he invited me over. We hung out at his house and just talked for a really long time.
Then he asked if I wanted to stay over to eat, so I did. After that.. we walked to a near by park and did our homework, it wasjust awesome. The thing isI'm christian and he isnt, he doesnt believe in waiting to have sex before marriage..and I mean I think he kinda likes me and I do like him, but that creeps me out that if we were ever to get in a relationship he would want to do something like that..
what should I do?
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Just because he isn't a christian doesn't mean he is planning on having sex with you. Yes, it will cross his mind, but he might not necessarily act on it. I guarantee you that you will be even considering it a few times. Its natural no matter what your belief system is. All I can say is talk to him about what is important to you. If he really cares about you, he will consider what you say and not act on his thoughts of sex. Good luck.
P.S. It's perfectly understandable to be afraid. It's human. But I'm sure things will work out. It's still your body after all. And this guy still cares about you and doesn't want to do anything to really drive you away.
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