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my best friend can be really rude sometimes...she would make fun of my friends just because of how they look...and i think its really wrong and it bothers me. i think all of my friends(girls) are pretty in their own way...and when i would tell her that she would make a face or turn away. even with the guy i go out with she makes a comment or brings me down. and i hate it. im trying to find the right time to talk to her about it but if i do, i dont want her to flip out and get all mad at me. but im really getting sick and tired of her. she is really imature..but i dont wanna lose her as a friend cuz shes really close to me..i wanna know if there's a nice way i can talk to her about it because everytime she acts like this i feel like screaming at her but i always hold it in. i cant let her keep saying stuff like this about my friends. and if she's got a problem with my friends then she should keep it to herself because i know i dont wanna hear it. she even makes fun of her own friends too...there were so many times where i just wanted to yell at her for it because i just couldnt say it in a nice way but i dont like being all screamy and yelling...i just need a nice way to tell her..
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Well its wrong for people to put others down. But no matter what you say to someone, everyone will put sumone down. its sumthing called opinions, alot of them can sound messed up and hurt others feelings.. but thats what people do their inconsiderate of others, and somehow think there better because there prettier or smarter. everyone is speical in their own way, and thats good that you can see that in friends, and respect people. If your bestfriend has no repsect for your friends or you, then their certainly not gonna respect her back. Just tell her what shes doing is bothering you because those are your friends, and how would she feel if this was all flipped around on her. Tell her to get to know them, before she puts them down, and if she still seems to make the faces and says rude remarks, tell her to keep them to herself, because you dont want to hear it.
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