Question Posted Friday September 16 2005, 11:45 pm
my bestfriend is always pushing me around and if i say somethign she doesnt like she gets mad. like when i wanna invite my boyfriend to go somewhere with us she'll get mad and say why dont you just go with him instead of me.. and she always kids around and smacks me and when i tll her it hurst and to stop she says ok and then will do it again the next day.. she acts more like a bully then a best friend.. and if i tell her all of this she will get mad and probably not speak to me for a long long long long time.. what should i do..
-- depressed
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? GANGStAhBAbiiEx answered Friday September 16 2005, 11:51 pm: you can just tell her "you are my best friend but you smacking me doesnt really seem like what a best friend should do and it does hurt" and about the boyfriend thing you can say something like this "and when i invite my boyfriend places with us it doesnt mean i just want to spend time with only him i want to spend time with both of you" try not to say that in a mean way just a way that she will understand you and if she keeps hiting you i would find a new best friend and if she asks why you dont hang out with her anymore say "i asked you nicly not to hit me and i told you about me you and my boyfriend but you keep doing it"
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