|
help pleeeease
ey (sorry its kinda long..) but anyway, i hooked up with this guy (lets call him sam )last weekend..and one of his friends (b0b) the night before was telling me to make sure he wasn't using me and to make sure he really liked me before i did anything with him. But the night i hooked up wit this guy he was piss drunk..so idk if he really remebers or whatever..Apparantly he did remember because Sam called me on saturday night, the next night and was like "Bob is going to tell you that i am using you, and i just wanted to let you know i'm not.." and he gave me this whole long reason why bob would say this..and then i was like ok fine and then i started doubting that it was acutally Sam who had called so i texted him yesterday (monday) and asked him if he had called me a few days ago and he siad no..what do you think is going on here??
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I think it sounds like both Sam and Bob are immature and not worth your time and attention. I don't understand the statement "I hooked up with this guy BECAUSE he was piss drunk". We've all done it. And in retrospect, you realize the reasons you're been sleeping with guys are to try to make them like you or feel better about yourself and it doesn't work. The only thing you end up with is a bad reputation.
I'm not judging you and I'm not trying to tell you not to have sex. What I AM saying is that eventually you're going to realize that if you sleep with guys that have shown through quality time and respect that they really care about you, you won't be dealing with mini-dramas like this anymore.
]
More Questions: |