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ok so im 14.. and have been going out with this guy for 8 months on & off. i love this kid a lot but ever since highschool he's been really friendly with this other girl i know.. idk what to do bc if i say something about it he calls me a drama queen- if not i "dont care" supposidly im too whipped to break up with him & its true bc i know how miserable i am with out him.. but hes' always giving me this crap about how "im lucky to have him" ugh it pisses me off he's so full of himself.. but like he doesnt even know how lucky he is to be w/me- so i need help... do i break up with him? or do i stay with him & try to work things out
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i think you should break up with him and then go out with one of is friends and make him jelious then he will see how much he missed out on
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jessica
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Dear lord, dump the loser. Not so much for the being firneds with a girl thing, but any guy who tells you you're lucky to have him needs be to be shown you can do without that kind of "luck".
You're only 14, believe me when I say you will come across a whole truckload of boys in the next few years who will deserve you far more than this little boy. Maybe he'll even have grown up by then- but he can do that much better if people don't pander to his arrogant whinings.
Harsh but true.
Have a great time
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you should never settle for a guy who tells you you're lucky to have him and doesn't appreciate how lucky he is to have you. he's not worth your time.
i suggest you try to talk to him one more time, but if he shrugs you off and calls you dramatic, let him go. if you're "so lucky to have him" then he thinks he could be with anyone, so let him.
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I'm sorry, but a guy telling me I'm lucky to have him would get kicked to the curb.
I would suggest telling him how your feel. He may call you a drama queen, but you need to get your feelings out. If he continues to be the same way, I would dump him. It sounds to me like he cares more about himself than you. You deserve better.
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First of all I'm not so sure why your question is in the Sex category...
Just tell him how you feel. He will probably call you a drama queen...but a lot of people are like that. When you confront them about your problems or worries they always say you're just trying to be a drama queen and stir up trouble. It's not always true. What's so wrong about telling someone how you feel? You'll just have to explain to him that this is how you feel and it has nothing to do with being a drama queen. And if he does not listen and continues calling you a drama queen tell him if he loved you he would actually care about your feelings, not push them away and say you're being too dramatic. Also remind him (and yourself) if he loved you he wouldn't need any other girls to flirt with.
Basically my advice to you would be to talk to him about it. If he pushes it away, explain to him why it's important you talk. Honesty and communication are so very important in a relationship. If he just doesn't cooperate with you, it's probably time to let him go. There's not much else you can do; you already tried working it out with him. Better to let him go than to torture yourself.
Just remember that dating is all about bonding withi someone, gaining new experiences, and finding out what you need and want. If things don't work out you move on and live life. Good luck!
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