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do i still have my cherry


Question Posted Tuesday September 13 2005, 5:52 pm

an older boy would make out with me a couple timens a month for about 2and a half years.we never had real intercourse but he would finger me and i jerked him off,we would both cum.l never had any blood after he fingered me.i am now almost 15 and not seeing him any longer.Do you think i still have my cherry

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alisonmarie answered Thursday September 22 2005, 5:24 am:
A cherry, or hymen, is not made of steel. Most girls' hymens start naturally disintegrating in their early to mid teen years. it can also be 'popped' by a lot of normal activities.

Being pretty constantly fingered (with penetration) would suggest that even if that thin layer of skin had been there, it's been torn/pushed aside.

Blood doesn't always accompany first penetrations, and some girls won't bleed from fingering but WILL from a penis, due to the extreme stretching that their bodies just are not used to.

Don't worry. No one will be able to tell whether you've got your hymen or not - and there's no way anyone could know whether or not you are a virgin. That's up for you to decide who knows and who does not.

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