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umm....hi. my name is marie, and i'm sixteen. i live in st. louis, MO and i have a wonderful boyfriend, Johnny. We had sex a few weeks back and i'm pregnant. I love children, but i can't tell my mom, and i can't have an abortion, i would have to have parental consent. i really want to have this baby, but i can't tell my mom, she'll kick me out, and i don't want to tell Johnny either, i'm too scared. i've taken 3 home pregnancy tests that friends have brought to me at school, and i even skipped class to go see my Gynecologist, and he said that i am pregnant. i know you probably have never gone through this, but your the one my friend gave me to ask this question. if you could answer as soon as possible that would be great.
Thanks a million times infinte
Marie McClean
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Thank you for asking first off. I know it seems scary to tell your mom the truth, but you can't let the fear of being kicked out stop you. You've got to tell her, she'll find out somehow, so you won't be able to hide it forever from her. Your mom knows that it won't solve anything to kick you out, she knows that anything she says or does won't make you no longer pregnant. And, your boyfriend has to know about this, too. If hes as wonderful as you say, then he will understand and support you and his your child together. When you get it off of your chest, you will feel a lot better, you're right, I don't know what this is like, but I do know what its like to be really scared of telling someone something. You need to go tell your boyfriend first, and have just you, or both of you, tell your mom together, or something. But, she has to know. If you need anymore help, please ask me or update on how you're doing, but if you don't post to me again, I wish you luck and a safe delivery for your baby.
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