Question Posted Saturday September 10 2005, 10:56 pm
i really like this guy like a LOT and i have never been attracted to him before ever and at one point i thought he was ugly! and i started liking him yesterday (friday) like right after school because i see him last period and i have been dying to see him. my problem is that he isn't that popular, and he is always talking to me and my friend but i think he is just trying to be friendly. i really want to ask him who he likes, but idk how i would ask him without him thinking i'm a total weirdo. i really need good advice, okay? so PLEASE try to think of yourself in this situation and don't just say, "well just ask a friend to ask him or something" i really need a good piece of advice. thanks so much for taking the time to read and answer this question!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? UHaves_iHaveAnswers answered Sunday September 11 2005, 9:27 pm: well, who really cares if he's popular or not!! if you like him then, hey, go for it!
to ask him if he likes you then you can try different approaches, depending on who you are----
1)just be straight forward and ask him if he likes you
2)or lie and say that people are saying that you two go out (even though you dont)and then see what he says, and then say "do you want to give them something to talk about?" (meaning that you guys would act like you go out)and see how he reacts
3)or say lie again, "everyone thinks that you like me? there's nothing wrong with that,i just want to know, is that true?" and see what he says and how he reacts and take it from there
4)you can play truth or dare with your friends and him and if he picks truth, someone can ask him if he likes you. then if he says yes, then he does...but if he says no, then make a couple of your friends say/yell in a kinda-nice-but-not-mean-way, "you're lying!! we can all tell you like (your name)" or they can say, "but everyone says that you like her!! haha. you lied in truth and dare!!" but DONT make him feel bad though
5) or again play truth or dare..and if he picks dare then the dare should be to go tell the girl he likes, that he likes her, and see who he tells.
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