Question Posted Saturday September 10 2005, 7:00 pm
There was this boy we will call him Joe. Last Year Me and Joe used to hug and talk alot. Joe never hugged any other girls only me and he's really popular and I'm not that pretty. Alot of people like him. Then my friends Ally, Jen and Kayla said I was stalking him and he didn't talk to me any more and I felt really unconfortable around him. We used to walk home together and chill. Now we don't. I'm in love with Joe and I want to go out with him I talk to him a little now that I'm friends with him again and I have new friend's Rita,Shawna,and Jessy. I really really want to go out with im but I'm afraid he won't like me anymore. He's nice to me now.
Do you think he would like me anymore?
Additional info, added Saturday September 10 2005, 7:01 pm: Will rate 5's!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lucretia answered Saturday September 10 2005, 7:52 pm: My advice is to STAY AWAY FROM MEN NAMED JOE. That was the name of my last bf.Y'see, I have a theory that all these Josephs have a complex from all the responsibility of being named after Jesus's stepfather. That's why they shorten their name to Joe in the first place, to distance themselves. Only of course, your boy isn't really a Joe is he?
Jo(e)king apart, however, I think that you're in a good position-firstly, you lost those "friends" who worked to turn him against you. Congratulations! Let's hope that your new posse turn out to be genuine buddies and not jealous backstabbers. Which brings me on to my next point, which is that friends can be more important, at certain times of our life, than lovers. Ideally, of course, your lover should be a friend, perhaps your best friend. But hey, it doesn't always work out that way, which is why you need a few loyal people(or even just one loyal person) to pick you up again.
Having said that, "Joe" sounds like quite a good guy. Perhaps he just cooled off from you thanks to the machinations of your former "friends". (Which in itself makes him weak but not bad). Play it by ear, enjoy him as a friend and see how it goes. One last point(sorry i'm rambling on so much,i'm tired, it's nighttime here in London y'know). You describe yourself as "not that pretty". No guy worth his salt is hung up on how a girl looks. Personality is everything, and you sound like you have a lot. lol Lucretia xx. [ lucretia's advice column | Ask lucretia A Question ]
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