Question Posted Saturday September 10 2005, 4:22 pm
This is gonna be long so I can explain it all.. okay.. I am 15 years old and I had been with a boy for 6 1/2 months... I really loved him... well we broke up and it killed me... he left me and we have been broke up 1 month and a couple of days... and the guys best friend asked me out... and I said yes... knowing i still had feelings for the ex-bf... i had been to the river with the ex-bf like 2 days before and i had been talking to the ex-bf everyday since the break up... but i said yes and i still wonder why i did... well i found out that the new bf had liked me for over a year and a half so i bout died... well the ex-bf wants back with me now... he said he had planned to ask me back out the night that the new bf asked me out... well the ex-bf and me have been talking and the ex has been crying something we wasn't good at... what is going on... should i leave the new bf for the ex considering i don't have feelings for the new one or should i stay with the new one... because sometimes the ex-bf was mean! idk please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BecauseYouLivex3 answered Saturday September 10 2005, 8:12 pm: Wow this is a tuff kind of tuff. But im gonna try my best. Ok so I think you should dump your current boyfriend. Because I dont think its right to go out with a guy you dont have feelings for. But I understand why you said yes. Ok but also even though you do still have feelings for this guy I don't think you should go out with him. 1) Because he was very mean to you. And than again he may just want to take you back just because he feels bad or something. So if I were you I would just stay single for a while. Until you figure things out. So what you do is break up with your boyfriend. But when you ex asks you back out don't say yes. Because chances are he could hurt you again. And im sure you don't want to go through that pain again. So just spend some time being single. And than you will sort out on what you think. And maybe you will jsut get over your ex. Well I hope I helped [ BecauseYouLivex3's advice column | Ask BecauseYouLivex3 A Question ]
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