Question Posted Saturday September 10 2005, 6:25 am
Hi. I have a slight problem. There is this guy, his name is Steven. He is my sisters-bestfriend's-brother. My sister said that him and I would look cute together because we have the same type of personality. I've only talked to him online, never in person and he has a wonderful personality! What really turns me on about him is he is friendly, loves God and doesn't smoke, drink nor do drugs. I started talking to him like three days ago, and from the conversations we've had, he's called me georgeous and said I was awesome several times. (He's seen pictures of me.) I really want to meet him, and we're planning on going on like a little group date thing with two of his friends, and two of mine. (My sister and My sister's best friend.) But I'm really nervous and I'm not sure when it's going to be. I really like him and I think he likes me but I'm not sure. He lets me call him Stevie and is just a really sweet guy to me. I don't know what to do about it. I always anticipate talking to him and am really happy when I do. But, what if he thinks I'm ugly in person or have a horrid personality or something? I'm just kind of scared and don't know what to do about it! Can you please just overall assist me in my situation? Thank you very much,
MKS
Additional info, added Saturday September 10 2005, 6:26 am: Oh and I'm sixteen, he's fifteen.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lucretia answered Saturday September 10 2005, 12:44 pm: Oh you lucky thing! I wish that I had a cool online boyfriend! I know what you mean though. This relationship, which has been drifting in cyberspace, too-good-to-be-true,is about to translate itself into flesh and blood. A scary, if delightful, prospect for both you and your cyber-mate. So here is where I quote from Elizabeth Wurtzel, one of my favourite popular intellectuals-"Always keep your mind on what YOU feel(my capitals)not what HE feels"(The Bitch Rules-excellent book and more approachable than her other stuff).
This is all too true. While I agree with the advice given by the other columnist(sorry I've forgotten their name :-( , that you're sure to make a great impression, don't forget that he, too, mightn't live up to YOUR expectations. With that in mind, and promising yourself not to be too disappointed if that occurs, go out there and have yourself a great time! lol Lucretia xx. [ lucretia's advice column | Ask lucretia A Question ]
LETSGO answered Saturday September 10 2005, 12:11 pm: dont be scared! if your sister is gonna be there then its all gonna be good. if he thinks your pretty online then hes gonna think your pretty in person! dont be scared im sure you'll have a GREAT time. [ LETSGO's advice column | Ask LETSGO A Question ]
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