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Boyfriend causing depression


Question Posted Wednesday September 7 2005, 3:36 pm

Ok so I needed some help like a month ago when I decided to have sex with my boyfriend, now ex, a month ago. I was having a hard time dealing with it, but I'm okay with that.. Now I'm faced with depression because I'm in love with him but we recently broke up. I'm not wanting to do anything, Ive missed 3 out of 7 days of school, all I do is mope around my house, I cry just out of nowhere.. Now my mom and I are going to talk to my guidance counselor about getting me early graduation (yeah I'm smart, Thank the Lord!) and she thinks that I'm getting harassed at school. (its happened before) But really, I'm just that depressed that I dont want to go... I'm starting to think if I should tell her that my ex-bf and I had sex or not.. Maybe she would have a better understanding as to what I'm going through.. I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO... PLEASE HELP ME!!! I'm desperate for answers... and quick!

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XXLiLtaytayXX answered Friday September 9 2005, 7:58 am:
Ok normally telling your parents you had sex its always best but maybe in this case it could be but what i dont understand is why he broke up with you and has hard has it is im wondering if he only wanted you for sex (typical guy) which im hoping isnt the case but its a probability now if you told your mom and your guidence counsler everything it could help them know how to help and if you gettin a early graduation that could help you move on and try and see other people to get your mind off the one you miss thats the best i can do0o hope it works out..

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karenR answered Wednesday September 7 2005, 4:33 pm:
I think since it is bothering you to this extent talking to your mom would be a good thing to do. She seems to be a good understanding mom and she could probably be a great help. Moms really like to help...sometimes as teens you just become afraid to say anything. Moms a lot of the time are afraid to bring up the subject too. Go ahead and confide in her if you think it will help you. It can only make your relationship stronger. :)

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