ok well we were arguing over something as stupid as a picture i took that was revealing to much breast..and he said that it made me look easy and shyt...and so i took it down and i was like ok calm down and he was like wut ever bye..and i was like what the fuck i dont see not one reason for you to be pissed...he said take a fucking hint i do care about you...dah!!!
so that was the arguement..thats why i dont know what to think
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? hailebop answered Tuesday September 6 2005, 5:36 am: Well, that is difficult. He could be just trying to be protective and worries about how people see you, which could be just him caring as a friend. On the other hand, his behaviour is quite over the top and quite like that of a jealous boyfriend. If it was purely him being friendly, it seems like he could easily have said it in a calmer and more constructive manner.
In all honesty, I don't think his saying that he cares about you was a way of saying he wants to get back together. I do however think that he said it because he has some unresolved feelings for you. He's probably telling himself that he just cares about you as a friend (and thinks that he's just being protective as a friend character) but his behaviour indicates that he probably does have some feelings for you remaining. That doesn't necessarily mean he wants to get back together though, as we often harbour strong feelings about exes even when we know we should be moving on and it wouldn't in fact be good for us to get back together.
I do think you should talk to him, whether you are interested in a reunion or not. It seems like he's not really over you because of the way you've described him speaking to you, and if this is the case, you need to talk so you can get along without instances like this where he tries to tell you what to do, as if he were still a posessive boyfriend. Good luck. [ hailebop's advice column | Ask hailebop A Question ]
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