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There's this guy that i know. I like him but hes really immature sometimes, and it gets annoying and old. And I dont even know if he likes me!!! Should I just forget about the hole thing??
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no, don't just forget about him if you really like him. all boys can be really immature at times, but they can also be really nice. first, ask yourself this. can you picture yourself going out with him? do you think he's really good enough for you? if you answered yes to those questions, then maybe he is the guy for you. but it doesn't matter if you like him or not, if he doesn't love you back. if you're too nervous or shy, then get a friend to ask him for you if he likes you or not. but it means more if you ask him in person. if he doesn't like you, then you two can just be friends. and maybe as you two get to know each other better, he might start to like you. but you never know, you might find out that he's different then you thought he was, and you might stop liking him. make a list of pro's and con's(a list of things you like about him, and another list of things you don't like about him.) if you don't have many things on your list, then you probably don't know him well enough. see which one's have more, the pro's or the con's. think about this, if this guy does happen to like you, and you two went out, then you shouldn't just change your mind right after you go out with him, because you decide that he's too immature for you. make sure that you would be comfortable with going out with him, and that he's not too immature. because who would like to be going out with someone that's THAT immature? Do you really think that he's right for you? first, talk to him more, and try to get to know him more. if he says anything mean to you, then he's not worth it. if he says he doesn't like you, then he doesn't deserve someone like you, and it's his loss. don't feel bad if he says no, because there's plenty of other people that are better than him, and that would be willing to go out with you. maybe you'll like him for now, but you'll get over it, it just may take some time. and then maybe later he'll realize that he really does like you. so if he says he likes you, then that's good, but if he says no, then he's not worth it.
!~!good luck!~!
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