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Confused and Desperate, hope you can help


Question Posted Saturday September 3 2005, 12:22 pm

Ok So im 14 years old and im a girl. I have a bf but i like someone else so much that it hurts. But this guy that i like is like my best friend and he has no clue i like him, how could he i mean i have a bf. But anyways this guy likes other people too and it hurts when he tells me who he likes because he tells me everything. This guy is beautiful and im so in love with him. But to make a long story short, my bf is really nice and we have been dating for over 6 months and its gotten kind of boring. I mean things arent like they use to be the feelings for me just arent there anymore and i fell bad about it. but i really dont want to break it off with him and hurt his feelings b/c he's so nice, but i really like this other guy. What should I do? Its almost like i would rather not hurt his feelings then to do what im doing to myself. Please help me im in desperate needs this has been going on for a month. I wish i still liked my bf but i cant help the way i feel. What would you do?

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marti answered Saturday September 3 2005, 12:59 pm:
well i think u r just hurting him more than not tellin him because put yourself in his position would YOU want YOUR boyfriend likin someone else? tell him you still want to go out but your not sure whats going on right now and you need some time to think I know its hard but its for the best

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