i dont know whats wrong with me but i need answers. me and my boyfriend dont exactly have the best relationship but im completley in love with him and i trust him, but no matter how many times he tells me, im too insecure to think he wont leave me. i dont think im pretty, no matter how many people tell me i am. i cry everyday..sometimes for no reason. i used to cut myself ..i do sometimes but not any hardcore stuff. i know theres something wrong with me..im thinking bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. does anyone have anything i could do to help myself or anything at all? thanks :/
ACartee answered Saturday September 3 2005, 4:57 pm: First of all I'm really sorry you are going through such a tough time in your life. I suggest that you tell a parent how you are feeling and if you don't want to tell them all the details tell them that you have been feeling really sad and maybe even depressed. Tell them that you think you should see someone [ professional ] that can help you. Once you get a counselor you need to be 100% honest with them so they can help you with the correct treatment. Everything is confidental with counselors and if they don't express that ask them to make sure. As for being insecure and cutting yourself, that's part of your sickness. Remember let the counselor know EVERYTHING. Try to do something good for yourself, something that you WANT to do. Buy a new outfit, makeup or go out with your boyfriend and just have a good time. Do something to boost that confidence! Good Luck with everything!
elementblader10 answered Friday September 2 2005, 11:44 pm: Woah ok. My friend used to cut herself, but i helped her with that too. The pain of cutting just leads to more pain later on, so just dont do it. If you really think you have a problem then talk to your parents or your school counsilor. If everyone tells you your pretty then you must be pretty! I'm sure ur boyfriend loves you back, and you should tell him about this too. Since you trust him and love him so much, he should understand.
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