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OK, I have been going out with this guy for 8 days now. And we never talk, like maybe twice a day during school. He is in my weightlifting class, so we dont really get to talk a whole lot. His friend Bobby and his girlfriend Amber hooked us up, apparently he thought i was "pretty". So, I was like, well, he isnt really all that bad looking (i think he's hott) and he seems really nice.... so i thought i would give it a shot. But, now, he NEVER calls, i mean he hasnt called since the first day we went out, and its like he talks to me through Bobby or Amber... and thats why my old relationship didnt work, because we never talked. So i thought maybe, he's just shy (like i am) and it will take him a little bit to warm up to me or something. So like the 4th day we were going out, we finally held hands, and i dont know, my old bf wouldnt hold my hand and it took us like 4 months to hold hands (I know, bad huh?) So i was like this is freakin' awesome. So, he walked me to my locker and then left. So that was like the last time ANYTHING happened. And Amber said that he has done things with other girls, but he is still a virgin, so am i , and nothing (until im married) can change that. So, I just need some help on how i can talk to him more or something, like how i can tell him I am actually more interested than i act.... Thanks! - Maddy
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Dear maddy,
Interesting relationship you have with him! I'm in one like that right now. But I'm busy trying to help YOURS. The reason why he isn't communicating with you that well is probably because he 1) thinks your boring or 2) found something else that he's more interested in doing. You said he's done things with other girls.. did your friend say while you guys were going out that he did this? If so, talk to him about it. You need to speak up and walk up to him and tell him " I want us to speak to each other more, i don't like the way I feel in this relationship, I'm really interested in you" You haven't been dating for long so i can understand if he's shy and has to wamr up to you. you must be patient. it takes time for guys to warm up to having a new gf. If he hasn't been in that many relationships he probably has no idea how to be a a good boyfriend or how to talk to a girl as a girlfriend. You can help him out too! Find out what he likes doing, if you don't like doing it, you should try doing it with HIM. He may have some things to teach you and some things you hate can turn out to be things you love. Things he does may bring you closer if you do it with him. He may find you more interesting since your interesting in hanging out with him and praciticing his hobbies. But make sure he does your hobbies too so you both get more experience and understanding communication out of each other. Dont let amber and bobby be his messangers. go up to him and tell him that you want to talk face to face or over phone sometimes.
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