Question Posted Thursday September 1 2005, 7:43 pm
okay so me and this guy are "together" he said... people have been asking me if were dating, but i have no clue... like whats the difference from being together, dating, going out and being boyfriend/girlfriend?? he told me theyre all technically the same, so what does he think we are then?!?! (are we bf/gf??)... but im clueless... please help...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sbloemeke answered Thursday September 1 2005, 9:10 pm: Ah yes. The together phase. Not quite dating, not quite single. It is the farthest I have ever been in the love game.
Being together is like dating, just with less restrictions. For instance, both of you are allowed to talk with other Men/Women. You are also not committed to following each other's schedules, and are not committed to care about the other. Yet, you have a few restriction. You cannot flirt with other people, and you cannot go out with other people. And you are still supposed to show some sort of affection.
These were the conditions set during my stint. But, it may be different for you. It varies. [ sbloemeke's advice column | Ask sbloemeke A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Thursday September 1 2005, 8:06 pm: Yeah, they are pretty much the same. He sees you as boyfriend-girlfriend, and pretty much there's no confusion to be had. Just go with the flow, and by the way he acts you'll know if your going out and stuff. Which, I totally think you are, but hey, it's your call. [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
dntletitgo2urhead answered Thursday September 1 2005, 7:56 pm: Well they are all mostly the same. The only real difference is that "dating" isn't as serious of a relationship as "bf/gf". It's mostly like you go on dates with more than one person, but you could be dating just one person. Kinda hard to explain. lol. [ dntletitgo2urhead's advice column | Ask dntletitgo2urhead A Question ]
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