Hey Leah, this is my second time in this column and you give great advice so... well it's about my ex again. It's been about a year since we broke up but i still havnt gotten over him. i really really want to ask him out but i'm just so afraid that he's going to say no. i love him soo much he's in my mind 24/7. he's like no other guy in this world for me. should i ask him out and if he says yes then yes and no i say just kidding you fell for that!!? what should i do? about a month ago i said to him-hypothetically, what would happen if i asked you out? and he said he would say no cause of bro and sis relations. also, i told him i didnt like him anymore cuz i didnt like 2 weeks ago..but i just cant let go. he's just so sweet and perfect! but yah so should i ask him out?!?! thanks again for your great advicce!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cookierat123 answered Sunday August 28 2005, 3:34 pm: hello! ok i know how hard it is to get over someone you love, its REALLY REALLY tough. but if he told you that he would say no then lay off for awhile. but still flirt with him and try to look really pretty when you know you'll be in his presents : )lol. or you could try to flirt with other guys to make him jelous or something. just be really really nice to him untill he realized how much you like him. sooner or later you'll have the confidence to ask him out again and you'll be sure if he is gonna say yes or not. if you ask him out and he says no then just think, everything happens for a reason and there IS someone out there for you...you just have to search for him. it could be someone you walk by everyday but you never really talk to them, or it could be someone youve never meant but their still out there. trust me on this on hun, even though him in like.......8 years it wont madder anymore. but if he says yes then i suggest not getting too close to him bc if you two break up then its going to be some tears falling. try having a girls night out to get your mind off of him. go to a movie or the zoo to just have some fun!: ) i hope i helped!
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