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how can i tell he likes me?
Okay well im 13\f and i have a bf..but he lives in a diff. state. but idunno i still love him. BUTTTTT i have this friend who lives really close to me and i think i like him. How can i tell he likes me. we talk on the fone all the time, one time from midnite to 5 in the morning. hes cool. But liek.. i met him on myspace and i was looking at his other Friends on there and he told other grls the same thing he told me..that he thinks they are cute and they should hang sumtime.. BUtttt he always tells me my voice sounds hott and he thinks im awesome nd stuff. How can i tell if he likes me or if hes just tryna find an easy hook up i guess you can call it.
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hmm.. i say stick with your current b/f. distance doesn't matter if two hearts REALLY care. ...guys are jerks sometimes. trust me, i go thru it all the time. amuse your close friend & play along. but don't get so caught up that you fall for him. in the end, you'll just get hurt = sorry. _*lader P.S. besides, it'd be stupid juss dumping ur current b/f for something he can't change!! if you love each other, that's all that matters.
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Well.. I hate to be the bearer of bad news... but it kinda sounds like he just wants an 'easy hook up'. I know it's sad. I think it's great that you talk to him and stuff, but DON'T dump your boyfriend for this new guy. Get to know "MySpace Boy" a little better, about him, his track record with girls etc. etc. You definitely don't want to get played. He might tell everyone that he thinks they're cute, and might just want to see who he can get the furthest with. Do you know if he talks on the phone with other girls for a long time? Maybe he does? That's not my place to say. What I can suggest is to practice extreme caution. If he starts to get pushy and tries to make you do something you don't feel comfortable doing, drop him like a burning flip-flop. [unusual analogy, but hey - if a flip flop were on fire, you wouldn't be holding it, now would you!?] Hang out with him I suppose, but only in groups of friends. And be careful, he might hurt you. Then again, he might not. He might be innocent and just like you. Who knows? You'll have to play this one out, but be very careful! I've seen so much heartbreak... I don't want to see you hurt too. (physically, mentally, emotionally...) Be careful. Be discerning. Be shrewd. [because it's a cool word.] Just ... be wise and don't fall for anything, look both ways twice before crossing the street - if you know what I mean. :-)
-FunnyCide
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