I've been going out with this really nice kid for almost 3 months. I just turned 15, and he'll be 14 in a month or so. So we're over a year apart. He lives a half hour or so away, and I only see him once or twice a month. It was recently my birthday so he bought me a cute necklace, and a picture frame, and a shirt frmo when he was on vacation. Then there's this other REALLY HOT, shy but nice kid that I sort of know. We talked once or twice, and our parents are friends because our younger sisters play on the same softball team. His dad thinks he needs to be more outgoing and is trying to hook us up. My mom agrees that he's REALLY cute! He's a year older than me but goes to the asme school. I'm probably closer in age with him because I'm born before most people in my grade. What should I do? My mom says it's rude to dump Vince, but I really want to. He's not all that good-looking and he can be sometimes annoying. I feel terrible though because of the gift he just gave me! I also LOVE his family! What do I tell him? Do I give the gift back if we break up? How long should it be after he's given me the gift?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Teza answered Thursday August 25 2005, 9:52 pm: No, you don't have to give the gift back and just keep it. It was his choice to get you that gift and it was just something nice of him. If you don't like him that much don't even waste your time on him. I mean it's bad. If he finds out he will be crushed so just break it off with him and just tell him you don't even get to see him that often and it's hard for you. I think you will like this other guy more and more so flirt with him and maybe you guys will end up going out! It doesn't matter when you break up with him, just whenever you are ready too. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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