Okay, there is this one guy at school... We have gone out... once. I REALLY REALLY liked him but i dumped him because he thought i was prude, (which im not) and because soembody else asked me out.. that i also really liked. So i still liked him even after of a painful break up 3 months later. We still talk, everyday. My heart starts beating faster whenever i am near him, my palms get sweaty... and i kNOW he likes me too.. i've heard he said he never has a chance with me... but he does! its just... i know if i go out with him my best friend will totally ditch me.. everybody will think im a loser but i like him SO much! I just dont know what to do... i lovem y best friend, but also this guy. I like my reputation and i dont want it ruined, but i want to be more then friends...
PLEASER HELP ME! i willr ate everybody who gives me advice VerY VeRy GoOD! Ps. i am not a shallow person!!! I came here to get good advice so if you dont have it, dont give it! lol! okay <3
xomegaroni answered Thursday August 25 2005, 7:00 pm: hmm..i think you should go for it again. i mean you did say your best friend would ditch you, but if she really was your best friend, then why would she? you know what i mean? true friends stick by you no matter what. maybe it's juss a threat, like he/she doesn't want you to go date him, but he/she won't really ditch you. it depends how he/she is. don't be concerned about your reputation. when you graduate, it won't even matter anymore, and no one will care, and you won't either. cause really, if you don't give it a try, make your reputation safe, and then miss out on a guy you really like, you'll feel regret. you don't want to regret anything. talk to him about how you feel and explain you wanna be more than friends. he'll probably understand.
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