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Question Posted Saturday August 20 2005, 8:13 pm

ok i like this guy and have 4 over 2 years and he is going out with this girl(i asked him out for hercause Thought she was my friend) but he only feels sorry for her. then she started sayin all this stuff about me 2 him and wen we were running in PE he asked me and i said no and my friend called him and told me that he said that he didnt really like her and all and that he didnt like hr friends either that they were 2 preppy and that he liked nicer more laid back girls but last year we hated each other (i just played along i dont know if he did 2) and now im dreamin about him and thinking about him and i cant stop (im 13 by the way) and whenever i call him a jerk or insult him he always smiles.

and no one but me and two of my friends know and they both go to different schools

i cant write him a note(he will show his pals) or talk to him and tell him(i have no guts) wehat do i do plaese halp me look for signs or start a conversation....i am really in love i swear to god he is not just a crush i absolutly dream about him and i love him and i want to be able to tell if he feels the same....pplease help me



thanks

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Alpha345 answered Saturday August 20 2005, 10:25 pm:
My honest opinion. He doesn't like you, he even slightly indicated it when he told your friend he didn't like her friends. Also if he is going to go off and show his pals any note you send him (and probably if you told him anything he would just go off and tell his buddies then too anyway) then there really is no point in trying to talk to him. I think if you did tell him your honest feelings, he is just going to throw it back in your face and laugh at you. I'm sure you really don't want to hear this, but from what you have told me through this message, he doesn't like you and could honestly care less if you liked him back. That is just my opinion though..interpret it as you will.

But if you absolutely insist on going after him, just talk to him about random things (anything, music, friends, like/dislikes, food, etc the list goes on). Also maybe see if your friends can get anything on how he feels about you, that would help.

I hope I helped in someway atleast and you get everything sorted out with him. Good luck!

-Ryan

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