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Hey, This is the girl that was asking about what to pic, religion or Alan? yeaah. i got a question, and i thought I would be able to ask you.
Okay, like, I've known him foreveer, and he KNOWS we arn't supposed to date until we're 16, and this is totally awkward, cuz he's only 14 himself, and he says that he keeps his standards, but he keps asking me out...what do i doooooo?!
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Well You just have to know yourself. Think about whats important to you. Alan could be the love of your life, your future husband. But Chances are, hes not. So think about if you want to go against your religion (which you really seem to value) and date this boy, or if you want to wait. You could ask him to wait a couple of years. Give him his freedom and if you both still feel the same way when you're 16, go for it. But you probably wont. There are plenty of guys out there. When the time is right, you will find one. But if you think its the right thing to do, go out with alan. Its all whats important to you. If you choose religion, dont feel bad about telling him. If he really likes you, he will be sad, but he will respect your decision to remain faithful to your religion. I cant tell you what the right thing to do would be, but I can tell you, just do whats right for you. Good luck with it! Im happy to help with anything you need, just leave me one again in my inbox!
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