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Confused and Frustrated
Ok, there's this girl I like. I go over to her house all the time because she lives like 200 feet away. We've been friends for maybe six months, and during that time she's gone through some bad relationships where the guys just wanted to use her. I think she's starting to like me too. She always talks to me and smiles at me when she sees me (I love that smile), and whenever I let her see my phone she always puts like "Katie Luvs Ya" and stuff like that on the banner. We talk to each other whenever we have the chance and stuff. I really want to be alone with her sometimes, but all the other guys come over to her house too. Plus, she's grounded (for trying to sneak out to my house at 2:30 in the morning), and her mom won't let her be alone with me very often. She always sits real close to me whenever I'm sitting down. Basically, she just does a lot of little things. I never have a chance to ask her out or anything, because of the things I said earlier. There's a few other reasons: One of my best friends just got rejected by her. One of my other friends wants to ask her out. Both of them probably would've used her to. The last is the way everybody talks about me. She's been known to do some stuff with guys (she's not that way anymore, and she said that's a reason she likes me, I'm not that kind of guy), and all the guys are always talking about me and her, making up stuff about me, and it bothers me. I just want to know what I should do, because I really like her, but I don't want everybody to think I'm just trying to get some, plus I'm still kind of afraid I'll get turned down. Sorry that got really long. By the way, I just did random columnist. I'll rate 5 if you respond with anything besides a pointless remark. Thanks in advance.
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Well, first off that is really sweet. Maybe you guys can just be really really close friends, and it will grow. The best relationships come from friendships, you know. But if you ask her out, prove to people that you really like her. Take heer places and be kind to her.
You don't have to go out with her. Just be best friends. (this is if you totally can't ask her out) You can still go to movies and stuff. It's just that you aren't boyfriend and girlfriend. And like I said before, it may grow into something. Give it time, and do what you think is right.
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