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hi this is the same person who didn't no what to do bout her friends u said 2 sit down and talk to them
well I don't no if that would work because we had bunches of fights last year ova kinda stupid things and they say i'm anoying because I always ask them if they are still my friends and so on I think we are friends I just want to get closer and how do do i do that and what about them kinda pushing me aside kinda leaving me out because they want other friends they are really nice most of the time but
answer these quesions please
how do I get closer to them
how can I talk to them with out being "anoying"
how can I really really really BE there friends
please giva LOTS and LOTS of advice plezz :)
thank you
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ok sorry i didn't help much before I'll answer your questions in order
1) invite them over one at a time. Say one of your friends names was katie. Say to her in private.... Katie do you want ot sleep over or come over on Friday. Then if she says yes you guys can have some alone time and have her get to know you better and see that you can have a lot of fun and that you can be a really good friend. Find a way to sit down and talk just be having a regular conversation and then be like Katie I know I am getting on all of your nerves but i trust you to tell me why we aren't getting along as great anymore. If you don't want to do this maybe just bring up the idea that you guys can all hang out on firdays or maybe just you and katie that way they can see that you're still fun.
2)Talk to them one at a time. Maybe if you and one of your friends idk lets say her name was hannah are gonna hang out. Maybe go to the mall and while your shopping take a trip down memory lane. Be like we all used to have sooo much fun together. Do you think we will alwyas be as close as we were then. If her answer is kind of quick then there might be something wrong or if shes sarcastic that might not be good either but if she starts talking with you about being best friends etc... you know shes there for you and most likely its the same with everyone else
3) If you want to be a really reeally really good friend you have to open up completely. You say whats on your mind they say whats on theres let them in on your secrets as they will with theres offer advice wehn they need it or simply give em a hug if there sad. Call them a lot and plan to do a lot of fun things. Stick up for them when someone is mean and most importantly is always be there. Even if they call you in the middle of the night really upset about it.... now matter how tired you are... take the phone call trust me once these girls see how loyal you can be there gonna want to be your friends. I hope this helps you out and once again sorry the first advice wasn't the best. Leave feedback so i can no if i helped you out. Good luck!!
Kelli
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