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so confused
i'm 14 & so is my boyfriend, & we've been together for about half a year now. we both really want to have sex, but i'm just so nervous about the concequences like aids, stds, or even pregnancy. i know that most guys do it & kick the girl to the curb but i know he loves me, he tells me everyday & how we're going to get married & i know he truely does love me because he tells all his friends, & guys don't usually do that
by the way, i was reading your advice, you are so helpful!! keep up the work
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Hey,
thanks!
In my opinion, you shouldn't. I'm not saying he WILL FOR SURE kick you to the curb but he COULD and that's what worries me. I think you should wait until after marriage. After marriage is the BEST time anyone can do it so if you get pregnant, you can have your child and your child will have a father. If you are not married and you STILL have a child, basically, your child doesn't have a father. Your child only has someone who helped make him. Not someone to help him grow as a FATHER. I really think you shouldn't RIGHT NOW. He MAY be the person you DO do it with the first time but I think you should tell him that you think you should wait with him for a couple years. But if it comes to the point where you love this person SO MUCH that you think you are READY, not willing, it should be O.K if you are careful. You know that NO TYPE of protection is 100% so BE CAREFUL. It's GOOD to be willing but you should be MORE ready and you should know that you can handle it.
I want you to email me ANYTIME you need to talk. Or if you just want to say "Thanks" or "Hey." you can write to me too. I'm always here for you! Just know that I am always your friend and I can answer ANY question.
Best of luck! *
Hope I helped! **
♥ Kayla ♥
P.S. My email address is x_pink_x109@yahoo.com for you to email me there is you want! :-) Have a great day and make ALL the right choices!
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