Hey Crisco, I have a problem. Ive liked this guy for about 3 years. Ive dated other people but he and I hung out every once in a while and the feelings would come back. Well here recently he and I have been hanging out with my friend and her "crush" who happens to be his friend also. The feelings are stronger than ever. He has a girlfriend though. We both liked each other last year but never said anything. I know he cares about his girlfriend and im fine with waiting my turn but i'd love it if they werent together. He was at my place last week and we danced a lot and he completely acts like we are together. His girlfriend lives an hour away so he doesnt see her a lot. I know that if they werent together he and I would be so this doesnt help the way I feel any at all. Can you give me a little advice?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? CriscoZills answered Monday August 15 2005, 2:17 am: If it's causing you actual stress and upsets you to the point where it makes your heart hurt, perhaps you shouldn't hang out anymore. Let him know how you feel. Maybe that could make or break a decision to leave his girlfriend. Sometimes there will be questions that won't have a correct answer. This perhaps, is one of them. Sabotaging a relationship or being the reason a relationship fails is never a good feeling, unless you are a manipulative person, which I hope you are not. Always keep in mind that there will always be other fish in the sea. [ CriscoZills's advice column | Ask CriscoZills A Question ]
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