wellll, i liked this guy at my school (im pretty sure he didnt know i liked him i didnt tell him but i made it kinda obvious i would flirt a lot) and he all of a sudden started being really flirty towards me, and this went on for quite some time. he would just be really touchy and come down to talk to me during lunch and brunch everyday and would call me every weekend to see what i was doing and we would usually hang out. he even told me that he thought i was hot and that i would be a really good gf and all that kind of stuff. and then one weekend that he left to go to mexico to build houses he comes back and one of my friends tells me this story of him hooking up with this random girl that went to mexico with him. and ever since then things havent been the same between us and he slowly stopped talking to me as much as he used to and doesnt call me at all anymore. now that its summer im just confused as to what happened. i dont know if i should just stop trying to talk to him and leave him alone or if i should try and be his friend. orrr if i should make it more obvious that i like him, because i got the hint that he wasnt interested anymore so i stopped being flirty towards him. so what do you think i should do?
oh and im 16 and female
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Blade answered Saturday December 17 2005, 6:01 pm: Those trips really bring people together, weither or not they choose to. You should persue him a little more though considering all that you told me, he probably hasnt lost his interest in you just his insentive because you have stopped persuing him. So try a little harder and be a little bolder and see where that takes you. Avoid trashing that other girl as much as possible, especially to him, you'll ruin any chance with him that you might have. Good luck with everything and I hope it all works out for the best.
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