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Best friend changing
Alright, I have this best friend...well atleast i thought she was my best friend. And just last month we started highschool summer school...and in summer school my best friend had a different class then me and she met a bunch of new friends, and i was totally fine with her meeting new friends, no big deal! But then she had a huge sleepover party with them all and some other people, and she didnt invite me...and i that kinda bugged me but i got over it becuase she should be able to do stuff with out me without me getting mad...but anyways...so then she was like hanging out with these girls constantly and i was kinda like out of her life for those few weeks, well then to add to all of that...a week or so ago i was supposed to hang out with her, so we had it planned that we were going to hang out, then she called and said she couldnt hang out becuase she had to clean the house all day, so like i belived her, and thennn...she called the next morning and said that she had to tell me something becuase she felt really bad, and she told me that she lied to me and said she had to clean when really she did it so she could ditch me and hang out with those girls she just met...and that like REALLY hurt me, becuase i just couldnt believe she would do that to me...okay so now to add to it, at school she NEVER says hi to me, and shes always with those new girls and then shes like wearing clothes and jewlry and makeup that i would never excpect her to wear, and shes just changing, so i called her and told her how i felt and we talked...well more like argued, because she just refused to try to understand where i was coming from, and she said that she didnt know what to say so she would call me back when she knew what to say, then i heard her friend (or should i say new best friend) in the background so i was like OHH i see why you have to go, OKAY whatever bye. and i just dont know what to do...so here's the part where i need advice, what do i do?! what do i say...i really loved all the times we spent with eachother, and im just so upset with the way shes acting, idk if i should just forget about her and never hang out with her, or just foreget about all of it and start over...help meeee...and thank you sooo much for reading this!!! Ill def rate you super high
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Hey doll. Alright, I think that shes not being a very good friend to you, at all. When people enter high school its a whole new scene for everyone, and people tend to change. Sometimes people forget who their real friends are, and go with the crowd thats "popular" that week. Shes just trying to get noticed, and try to be popular and succeed in high school. Basically it seems like she feels that those new girls "have ti all" so to speak, and she just thinks she wants that right now. The best thing to do, I think, is to remember all the fun times that you have had, and know that those memories wont ever fade. Let her go and hang with her new crowd, and you should try and make new friends also. Its High school, the best years of your life ! So make the most of it, and dont let drama and friendships ending ruin your high school teenager experiance. In time, hopefully, she'll realize who her real friend was, and that those girls arent like the friend you were to her. Give it a couple monthes to a year for her to get the new exciting high school atmosphere out of her head, and hopefully she'll come back and you guys will be fine again. Untill then, also, try not to think about it. Join some clubs, meet new people, go your seperate ways for now, and try not to let it get to you. Its not worth ruining your teenager years. =)! Hang in there sweetie ! It will get better, I promise.
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