I go to an all-girls school so I don't know a lot of guys. I've recently become really interested in them, and I'm dying to meet one! I hang out with my friends a lot in the city, and there are a lot of guys my age there, and I was wondering if it's alright if a girl just randomly approaches a guy? Like, you're a guy, so you'd probably know, right? Would it seem attractive, or just really weird?
Thanks! LoVe, ~E~
There are a few different ways to approach your predicament. One is to just go up to a guy, and just say "Hi, my name is (your name here), what's yours?" Granted, some guys may not be as open to that approach, but it could be just the opener you need. Another is to pick a guy you kinda like, then flirt a little bit. If you are a little young for that one, just try the straight "Hi, my name is," but please, don't make it sound like the Eminem song. Perhaps trying something a little bit more simple could be the key. Try walking up to a guy you might be interested in and complimenting something about him. By that, I mean his shirt, his jeans, maybe his sense of style in general, etc. Don't try a pick-up line that a guy might use on a girl at a bar. Those can be really lame, but one that might work is asking a guy for his opinion. Something simple like, "My friends and I think Axe body spray smells really great, but we wanted a guy's opinion. What body spray do you think is better?" Something like that may show a guy you are interested in what he thinks, or has to say, which makes a great conversation starter. Try to be yourself, guys can sometimes tell when a girl is just trying to get their attention by being flashy. If you need more help, or just want to talk, feel free to email me at my school email address. Good luck.
Best wishes, Jordan- jordan.j.hunter@okstate.edu [ LSRGrayson's advice column | Ask LSRGrayson A Question ]
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