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i was raped a few days ago .. & i don't want your pity or nething .. but whenever me & my boyfriend have sex now .. i get really scared & start crying & push him off me .. is that normal .. ? please help mee!
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Wow, hun. I know you didn't want any pity and I'm not trying to do that, but I'm so very sorry this had to happen to you. This shouldn't have happened to you in the first place. As for your question, yes, this is totally normal that you're feeling a little weird around your boyfriend. It's like you go into shock when he touches you because being rapped just replays in your head. I think you should really talk to your boyfriend about this problem and what happened. He's probably wondering why you're freaking out when you guys are doing sexual things. If you guys are close and you feel comfortable with telling him, do so. It's the right thing to do by telling someone and I think your boyfriend has the right to know. I'm sure he'll support you 100% and will stick by your side. He'll help you trough everything and will be there for you. You should also tell your parents about this or an adult that you trust. Your parents deserve to know. They're your parents. They love you. I think they'd want to know if someone tried to hurt their daughter. The person that rapped you has no right and he could get into a lot of trouble for doing this. He could go to jail for it. Rape is nothing to joke about and it's against the law. I highly suggest talking to someone, sweetie. It'll do you good to clear your mind and tell someone. Maybe then you'll feel a little bit better. But please, tell someone.
♥ Krissy
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