i really like this boy who is one of my best guy friends...but he likes one of his best girl friends..me and hime talk alot and i guess you could say that we are close...during the year my friends thought i should go out with him because they think we flirt alot. and i admit that we do but i dont know what it would be like if we went out. i dont know if it would ruin the friendship or not because i just feel better around him i feel that i never wanna leave him. but the girl he likes is one of his best friends and it just bother's me how he always talks about her and the fact that he would ditch me for her...and in school they would always be around each other and it would just really make me mad. they never went out cuz the girl he likes had other boyfriends. and he tells me wut he does with her and it just seems like everytime we talk,he brings her up. i mean i know he can like someone and he doesnt know that i like him. so i know he doesnt know but i dont wanna tell him. but at the same time it just kills me inside because i think i've liked him longer than i've realized. but i just dont know what to do because i like him alot and i dont want him to know because i dont know how he would react to it and i just dont wanna take that chance of us growing apart and i wouldnt want him to feel wierd around me if he did know. i just wanna get closer with him but i cant because i already know i wouldnt have a chance.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xOx_MissygrL answered Saturday September 17 2005, 6:36 pm: well we all will make mistakes, or do something we regret in the future, but there is also a fine line of questioning yourself with the what if`s because if you tell him how you feel and how you felt for how long you`ve known him, then he most likely probably feels the same. If that all backfires tell him that you want to stay close, and to still be bestfriends because you care about him alot. That shouldnt make things wierd if you guys are bestfriends. If you dont feel comfortable with that all. Simply try talking to other people and see if the feelings are really that strong. [ xOx_MissygrL's advice column | Ask xOx_MissygrL A Question ]
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