16, lady.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and I want to break up with him so badly. I just don't want to break his heart. I know it is unfair to him -and- to myself, but I can't stand it any more.
See, I went away for the whole of July and it put a lot of things into perspective for me. I don't like him anymore, and I ended up really missing another friend of mine, whom i think I may really like. Am I being a complete arse about this?
(completely unrelated, but you wouldn't happen to be going to the Fringe, would you?)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Anthony_d answered Friday August 12 2005, 1:56 pm: Hmmmm now that is a dilemma indeed!! I understand what you mean and im so glad youre taking his feelings into the equation! But to be honest, the only way to prevent his heart being shatterd is to sit with him. And explain every single minute detail. Not jus that you're sick of him dig deep and explain in detail. Speaking from experience the reasons why people break up haunt u for weeks after if u dont know!! So the best you can do is i dno invite him out for a coke or somethin somwhere or jus round ya house sumwhere you can have alone time 2gether! And tell him exactly what you feel and the reasons why; as i say dig deep and try to tell the truth as much as possible. And dont lead him on. I mean there is no sense in lying oit gets us only ahosrt distances and usually fall.. So please take my advice.. It will save you both a secere heartache and maybe even furture resentment! I realy hope this helps you, and if possible let me know how it goes yea?
Hope i helped
Anthony
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